Why do people rush into relationships? I feel like we all need time to be alone and figure out who we are as a person. From experience I know that if you don't take time for yourself, IT WONT WORK! You wanna know why? Because you still won't know yourself well enough to know what you want, and you still will make the same mistakes over and over. And Over. I've been there, a serial dater so I know.

I experienced the most pain while being alone after my first real heartbreak. AND...the most growth. I know what makes me happy and believe me that helps eliminate so much BS. When you can see the lie before its even said. When you can spot a situation going into a negative situation that's oh so familiar, that's the best! lol.

I'm over waisting time. I'm getting older. What's the point of being in a relationship with someone "just because" That's what we did when we were 15 or 16 years old. Dating someone because it's cool. I'd rather be single than be in another dead end relationship.

We have to get to the point where we can truly be alone. For myself, I pray for contentment. I just want to be content with being me, and if someone fabulous comes along then that's a plus.

Although being alone is a scary thought that humans try to downplay, it is some times necessary. It's when its most quiet that God talks to you the most. Listen.